Monday I'll be celebrating twenty five years of marriage with my husband. God is good. We had the perfect recipe for a disasterous marriage and yet it never failed. They say that statistically speaking, married couples with special needs children divorce more often than those without. Our youngest child was finally diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, Bi-polar disorder and Schizo-affective disorder when he was sixteen. Previously undiagnosed years had us dealing with melt downs, hospital stays, suicide attempts, death threats and us just being on a horrendous roller coaster ride. When he was four the first psychiatrist we met with told us to not get too attached and forget about him ever being education. Well, too late! We were already attached to the kid! He's doing well these past five years but life still presents challenges to him and us. Throughout it all my spouse and I stood firmly together... Of course, there is the on going joke we have between us whenever some one asks how we managed to stay together through it all. We had this agreement (seriously, this is a true agreement we had) whoever left the marriage took the kids :-)
God is amazing in his creation. Seriously... all I have to do is look at a child and I'm amazed beyond belief on how awesome he is of a Creator.
Life may not always be a bowl of cherries, instead you may constantly swim in a bowl of pits! I'm just glad for my relationship with the Lord that I'm never alone through it all.
Psalm150:6 Let everything that has breath praise the LORD. Praise the Lord!
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